A breast milk dream is usually not something that you encounter in your sleep. But if you do dream of breast milk, chances are, your subconscious is telling you messages regarding your nurturing and motherly side as well as your need for some time for a period of self-improvement.
It doesn’t matter whether you are a pregnant woman or a man. If you dream that you are feeding a baby breast milk, it means that you want to be more giving. There’s a part of you that would like to nurture and cultivate other people.
Of course, this doesn’t necessarily mean that you’re going to raise someone from their infancy. This drive can be fulfilled in a wide range of forms.
You can build a business, join a team, participate in a community organization, mentor people around you, or just do a better job with your close and intimate bonds. After all, relationships tend to blossom when at least one of the partners puts the time, effort, and energy to nurture it properly.
If you’re a woman – pregnant or not – and you dream of breastfeeding a baby, the nurturing aspect of this dream symbol is heightened in your situation. When you have dreams that you are feeding an infant breast milk, it isn’t necessarily a sign you want to have children, or you have one on the way soon or in the near future.
Instead, there’s part of you that wants to participate in true acts of service for other people, but you’re not quite clear on how to do so. Maybe you have some knowledge about the things that need to be improved around you. Maybe you have a friend who is a volunteer, and he or she has inspired you to pay it forward. Or you’re looking to help others because, deep down inside, you too want to be helped.
You have crossed that line where you’re more than content to just lean back and let others do the work. Now, you’re being more proactive. You’re beginning to understand that if you want to be taken care of, you have to take the initiative and take care of others first.
Again, just like with the general interpretation above, this can take many different forms or symbols.
From the perspective of women, it often means being emotionally present to those who may need the help. Never underestimate this type of care. You can make a big difference, and in many cases, you might actually end up saving people’s lives.
It may not be obvious at first, but you’d be surprised when, many years later, someone will tell you: “I’m so happy I had that conversation with you. You can’t even begin to understand just how important that was to me because I was on the edge.”
Don’t think for a second that just being present for somebody is “too small.” When people are on the edge, nothing is ever too small.
General dream interpretation and meaning of breast milk
The interesting about breastfeeding dream meanings is that they’re very easy to overlook.
For example, if you’re a man and you’re dreaming that you’re feeding a baby breast milk through a bottle, you might not think much of its meaning. In fact, if you had a more traumatic dream, like a dream about being shot or a devil dream, you might even completely forget your breast milk dream.
It’s important to pick apart and remember certain details and symbols from your dream about breast milk to get more accurate meanings.
On the one hand, the meaning or symbol can seem very generic because it speaks to the almost human need to care for others and be considerate of their feelings. You might even be thinking that some people are just so callous and selfish that there’s no way that they would have this side to them.
Think again!
For a lot of people, if the conditions are right, they can give Mother Theresa a run for her money. Never write anybody off just yet.
Some of us are just more susceptible to the influence of external circumstances than others. Pay close attention to the context when reading through the specific interpretations below.
A dream of breast milk can signify prosperity and good health
Generally, in dreams, milk represents wealth and physical well-being. It’s not an accident that the Bible keeps repeating the phrase “land of milk and honey” several times.
Milk coming from women or female creatures plays a crucial role in the development of mammals. Unlike other classes of creatures, most mammals are born naked and defenseless, with nothing to protect the body. They also cannot eat solid food. This is their lifeline. It symbolizes living itself.
When this is the central theme or motif of your dream, it implies that a lot of your basic needs are taken care of. When this image is the central focus of your dream, maybe your subconscious is telling you to stop and slowly take a look at your life.
Sure, there are a lot of places that you may be frustrated about. Maybe you’re working towards a goal, and things aren’t moving as quickly as you would hope, and you feel like you’re losing. Or you are dealing with someone, and it seems that no matter how much you love them, they can’t seem to want to change for the better.
So there are all these little irritations, yet your subconscious is telling you that you’re well taken care of. You might actually be living in the best years of your existence.
Unfortunately, so many people are so focused on what’s missing. Or, worse yet, they are in such a hurry to go from the present to the future that they never stop, take a deep breath, smell the roses, and take stock of the financial, emotional, or spiritual wealth and prosperity they currently have.
It really would be quite sad for you to wake up much older only to realize that you were in the prime of your life at a certain time. Things were going so well. Yet now, the best you can do is reminisce and indulge in nostalgia.
Why not enjoy your stay in the land and time of milk and honey while you’re still in it physically and mentally?
Breast milk or breastfeeding dreams can also symbolize upcoming surprises. There might be big news up ahead for you. In fact, it can be the big opportunity that you’ve been looking for.
The funny thing about opportunities is that a lot of us have this habit of defining them in a very limited way. It doesn’t come as a shock that we often find ourselves missing great opportunities because we were too rigid in identifying them. Most of the time, we only see them in terms of monetary wealth.
Breast milk dreams can be related to your subconscious picking up on great opportunities that are forming around you, but you need to let go of your tendency to pigeonhole or stereotype opportunities. You have to understand that in many cases, opportunities come disguised as challenges or even setbacks.
How many times have you lost the job only to end up with a new company in a new position that paid way more?
You are not alone. So if you can roll with the punches and just enjoy what the world has coming to you, you’d be surprised to where you end up.
By tapping into your inner resourcefulness and creativity, you may end up with a better business deal, a more helpful business partner, or a more fulfilling job.
Pay close attention to your breastfeeding or breast milk dreams. Is your mental camera focused primarily on the viscosity and flow of the fluid? Does it look like it’s flowing or even steaming like in a latte?
Maybe you’re watching a barista craft your latte for you. Maybe they’re steaming it, and you can see the frothing bubbles and the wisp of heated vapor around it.
When you dream of milk imagery where it’s flowing and percolating, your subconscious is indicating that the opportunities that may be coming your way will be big indeed. It’s as if you can’t contain it because it is so large-scale that it can easily flow into other areas.
Again, the key here is to be open-minded enough to recognize opportunities in whatever form it takes.
What does it mean to dream about breastfeeding a baby very closely?
If your mental camera is showing your full face (again, it doesn’t matter whether you’re a man or a woman) and your “breasts” are tightly pressed against the baby’s face while breastfeeding, this signifies that you are coming to grips with your need to have close, tight, intimate personal connections.
This is not necessarily romantic or sexual. Instead, it means that there’s a part of you that is waking up to the fact that you need other people, and a lot of your friendships tend to be – let’s say – tier two or tier three friendships.
Imagine yourself as a set of concentric circles.
- The central circle is you – your thoughts, needs, fears, hopes, and dreams.
- The next outer circle is your dad and mom and possibly a very close sibling. They are the people that know you the best.
- There is a third circle. That is a tier 1 friend.
- Finally, all the other circles radiate out from you with more emotional and spiritual distance.
If you’re completely honest with yourself, and you have a dream where you’re tightly breastfeeding a baby to the point you can even feel their breath, part of you is spiritually hungry.
Close friends feed each other spiritually. In many cases, you don’t even need to talk to your friend. They just need to be present, and when you’re experiencing something together like watching something, or you’re walking through a park, and you just need to look at each other and smile.
Basically, what you’re telling each other is: “I am in this space and time with you, and I get you. You don’t have to put it in words, but I totally accept you, and we belong to each other. We get each other, and we have each other’s back.”
And this is completely devoid of any romantic implications because it is a message from the universe that you’re not alone.
Your parents, as you love each other, can only know you so much and in certain contexts. The rest can be lonely. That’s where your friend comes in.
But here’s the problem. Your subconscious is telling you, when you’re breastfeeding a baby tightly, that you’re not getting that kind of sustenance from your peers. Maybe they’re just acquaintances, or they’re cool people that give you a lot of prestige because you hang around them. But, deep down inside, you understand that they’re not tier-one friends.
Sure, they can open a lot of doors for you and may even recommend you for a job or try to set you up with dates with their friends, but a deep level of spiritual intimacy is missing.
Your subconscious is using this imagery of breastfeeding to tell you that now is the time to be more daring in asking people around you to be closer to you.
This is not easy because there’s a reason why there’s some distance between you and these individuals. Deep down inside, you realize it.
Maybe you’re afraid that they may find something about you. Perhaps you’re just so in awe of them that you feel they might not like you anymore if you want to take the next step in your friendship with them and make them part of your real inner circle.
Much of the issues really revolve around you and your insecurities. If you are surrounded by the right people, it’s not really that big of a deal.
And here’s another point. If somebody does get freaked out or feels awkward, they weren’t meant to be a tier-1 friend anyway. No loss to you. Just keep that in mind.
What does it mean when you have a breast milk dream about breastfeeding someone else’s baby?
This is a tricky dream symbol to interpret. It depends on the context.
Are you some sort of babysitter? You ran out of formula, and it turned out that you’re a lactating woman, so you end up breastfeeding the baby that you are taking care of? If that’s the case, then your subconscious is telling you about some sort of breakthrough in your resourcefulness and willingness to take one for the team.
This is actually a good sign. It means that you’re beginning to become a responsible, mature adult. Doing so means sacrifice and also doing whatever it takes to get the job done.
Well, on the other hand, if there is a sense of reluctance in your dream where you were breastfeeding, this represents that you feel that a big responsibility is thrust upon you – especially if you’re a mother in that dream.
For example, maybe you, as the eldest son, have to step up because your dad got laid off and couldn’t find another job. Maybe your mother suffered a disability, and she can no longer provide for the household, so you had to assume a motherly role for your younger siblings.
Whatever the case may be, you are thrust into a position of responsibility, and part of you just wants to cut and run. It just seems so big, and it happened all of a sudden.
It’s perfectly normal to think this way. Don’t believe for a second that you’re letting down your family when you think these thoughts. The abruptness of it all is revealed in the image of you breastfeeding someone else’s baby.
At the back of your mind, you’re thinking, “This is not my role in the family. I’m the baby of the family,” or, “I’m just still a child.”
But guess what. “What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger,” as the famous philosopher Friedrich Nietzsche once said. This is a key part of your journey.
Do you think other people have it easy? We all have turns and bumps on the road. That’s just the way it is. It is never fair, nor has it ever been easy. So roll with the punches because this could be a blessing.
Maybe for the longest time, you’re the type who lets other people run your life for you. Maybe you’ve even reached a point where you automatically assume that somebody else will take care of either your decisions or the consequences of your choices.
This has weakened you at some level or other. Now, things have changed, and you need to step up. This could be the big break that you’re looking for. It could be turning you into somebody so much stronger and more effective and competent than you ever imagined yourself be.
What if you dream of drinking breast milk and felt awkward?
One of my funniest childhood memories involves the time when my aunt used a breast pump to fill a couple of bottles for a child. She put them in the fridge, and my other cousin visited us.
Without asking, she went to the fridge and saw those glistening, clean-looking bottles. Without a word, she poured some in her cup and took a swig.
Now, she was walking towards the living room. She was telling my aunt how awesome the milk was. My aunt wasn’t thinking clearly, so she shot back: “What milk? I didn’t buy any store-bought ones. That’s just my breast milk.”
Hilarity ensued when my cousin tried with all her might not to throw up. I can’t say what sickened her more: the realization that she just drank breast milk coming from her aunt? Or the embarrassment?
If you’ve ever dreamed of drinking breast milk and felt awkward for doing so in your dream, it indicates that you are becoming so proud that you’ve reached a point where you don’t want to acknowledge the role of other people in getting you to where you are.
Do you know this type of person? It’s easy to say that when somebody else does it that they’re being a jerk. But to some extent, we all do this.
What your subconscious is telling you is to basically just be more self-aware and realize that we’re all interconnected.
A lot of people have this internal narrative that they are either self-made or completely self-reliant. Maybe that’s true to a certain extent, but you have to understand that nobody stands alone. At some point or other, somebody helped you get to where you are.
And here’s the clincher. In many cases, they did it in a self-sacrificing way. There was nothing in it for them. It just happened by random. Maybe they’re feeling generous that day. Or circumstances just converged into this amazing act of personal grace and generosity.
Please understand that there’s nothing to feel awkward about when you take somebody’s help.
At the back of your mind, you may be thinking: “Well, that simple ‘thank you’ that I said doesn’t seem to go far enough. They did me such a big favor.”
But please understand that the universe is filling you with blessings, not for you to consume all alone and store away just for your own personal enjoyment. It’s meant to be shared.
So, when you grow because of this blessing that has blessed you to the point that you have prospered, gotten strong, and fully developed, at some point, you’re going to have to also pass that along.
And, yes – oftentimes, the people who receive it are completely undeserving. It doesn’t matter. You have to be part of the flow of the universe. You can’t bottle it up because, if you try, it distorts and warps other areas of your being.
What does dreaming of breast milk and choking mean?
If you dream that you’re the one drinking breast milk from a mother, and then you choked, this can indicate that there’s an upcoming event or challenge you’re about to encounter.
In many cases, you already realize this, but your subconscious is sending you these dream images to communicate the fact that you’re very anxious about it. This is not a prediction or a prophecy.
Instead, your subconscious is telling you, “You realize this is going to be big. You also realize the consequences of not being prepared.”
When you put two and two together, you quickly realize that your subconscious is telling you to do what you need to do so you don’t get flattened by the upcoming test or challenge.
It’s not like you get hit by something from left field. You already realize that this big thing is coming. The problem is, a lot of people may be aware, but they still get caught by surprise because they’re focused on other things.
Maybe they have day-to-day responsibilities, and things just spiraled out of control, and their priorities get turned upside down. They take care of the small stuff, ignored the major stuff, and when the big challenges come, they get hit hard like they’re caught up in the middle of a tsunami.
When you dreamt of yourself drinking breast milk and choking in your dream, your subconscious is telling you to get ready because with the proper amount of preparation, the challenge goes away, and you start seeing what’s happening for what it truly is: an opportunity.
Remember, this is still milk. It still symbolizes abundance, blessing, and good fortune. Don’t let your lack of preparation turn it into something else.
What does dreaming of showering in breast milk symbolize?
It depends on where you are and how old you are in your dream – were you a child in the dream of a full-grown adult? If you see yourself showering in breast milk, it indicates that you feel the kindness of people around you. This is usually a dream image involving the family.
Now, it doesn’t matter whether your parents are still together or whether you are raised alone by your grandmother, or you have an abusive mother or father somewhere.
At this point, your subconscious is telling you to count your blessings because you are loved. The people around you may not be perfect, and your past may not be some sort of storybook childhood, but it doesn’t matter.
The love and attention you feel are genuine. It comes from a real place. It’s not forced, nor is it borne out of some awkward or reluctant obligation. It’s real.
You have to understand that a lot of people rob themselves of a happy family experience because they expect their parents or their family history to be perfect. That’s really too bad because if you think that the only way you can have an “ideal childhood” is for your parents to be married when they had you — that they willfully had you — then you are barking at the wrong tree.
Believe it or not, most people are accidents. It’s not as though the vast majority of people planned all their pregnancies. They don’t, but most of the children born are still loved.
Sure, there’s a lot of confusion and even potentially emotional chaos, but at the end of the day, they’re still loved there.
So, take what you can get. A lot of people who wake up from a dream of showering in breast milk can’t help but laugh because there seems to be such a contrast between the type of family drama surrounding them and what breast milk symbolizes.
Maybe your subconscious is seeing things that you have forced yourself to be blind to. Maybe you keep looking at your mother and expecting her to be perfect. A little bit of gratitude can go a long way.
What does it mean when you dream about washing your hand with breast milk?
When you see the central image of your hands go into a washing motion in a fluid that is obviously milk, this can indicate a key part of your personality.
You may be a perfectionist, and you don’t realize it. A lot of people think they’re a perfectionist and hold themselves up to a high standard, so they expect the best from other people.
Well, there are many problems with that.
First of all, many people are one-sided perfectionists. Put simply, they want the best from other people, but they don’t hold themselves to the same standard. Their relationships are lopsided, and they are prone to be disappointed.
It’s as if they are holding the world to this golden standard, but they themselves refuse to live by that standard.
What’s wrong with that picture?
Perfectionism can also harm you because you may be trying your best to live up to a perfect standard, and you feel disappointed that the rest of the people are just slackers and losers.
Again, this is just as emotionally harmful because you have to accept people for what they are. You can’t hold them hostage to an imagined standard that doesn’t exist.
So if you want to be happy in your relationship, please understand that there is no such thing as perfect. But there is such a thing as “enough.” Know the difference.
Accept enough of their love. They are good enough for you. Be loving enough.
You’d be surprised because when we go from thinking in terms of perfect to enough, not only do we become happier, but we also take more action.
So a lot of the things that we hope and wish for are more likely to enter our lives.
Why? It’s because we’re more likely to take action. We’re more likely to try and fail. And the more you repeat that the more you learn. And eventually, you get to the next level and the level after that.
That’s how it works. So, when you see yourself washing your hand in breast milk in your dream, it indicates that you are so stuck with an ideal view of the world and the people in it.
That’s really too bad because if you were just to look at the world as it is, instead of imagining it to be something else, you might have better relationships. And you may end up doing better in all aspects of your being.
What does it mean to dream about dry breast milk?
If you see the dry breast milk as a stain that has dried, that means an opportunity has passed you by. Just as hindsight is 20-20, people only become aware of certain great opportunities when it’s gone in their lives and usually has borne fruit for somebody else.
For example, both you and your ex moved on and remained friends. She ends up marrying somebody. As the years go by, having failed in several relationships, you quickly realize that your ex-girlfriend was actually the one. She was the one that actually had the patience to potentially grow and mature.
So, when you see her and her husband again at a get-together, you can’t help but feel nostalgic. But, at the same time, that sense of 20-20 hindsight comes crashing down on you like a ton of bricks.
Now, don’t confuse this with still loving that person. That’s completely a different issue.
But this does bring to the forefront the power of awareness because, as I have mentioned in the previous dream interpretation in this post, you may be going through your personal golden age. You may be thinking to yourself, “Well, my boyfriend is far from perfect. He leaves the toilet seat up, pisses all over the place, has hygiene issues. I’m sure I can get somebody better.”
Well, you may just be looking at his issues and rough edges, but you’d be surprised as to how you missed the rest of him when you try what else is out there. I’m not saying that you should settle. Let’s get that out of the way.
Instead, I just want you to fully look at what you have and be as aware as possible as to where you are based on what you’ve seen before and how things are headed.
One of the worst things that can happen to anybody is for them to wake up 30 years later and realize, “I had it so good.” This can apply to your love life, your job, your business, your health – everything!
So, take a moment and try to put things together and see. Maybe you’re living in the land and time of milk and honey, and you don’t even realize it.
What if you dream about breast milk and you see that the milk is dripping from breasts?
Trickling milk from breasts signifies that you are having a stressful period. You may be thinking that you are not taking full advantage of opportunities. You know that things are going well enough that you’re wondering how you can “milk” your situation even better.
This is a very interesting situation because, sometimes, when we try to solve a problem, we end up making the challenge worse.
Maybe we’re looking at it from a different angle that is less than productive. So you might want to take a step back and pay attention to what’s happening around you.
What’s stressing you out? What’s making you feel that you’re not fully taking advantage of the opportunities that you have present? What are you waiting for? What are the opportunity costs involved?
Of course, you can’t do this all in one sitting, but if you just allow yourself to be aware of these questions, you might be able to make sense of your situation well enough to get out from under that tense and stressful feeling.
What does it mean to dream of pumping breast milk?
When you see yourself pumping your own or your partner’s breast milk in your dream, it indicates that you have stepped up. Your subconscious is telling you that you are becoming more active in your life.
You’re not sitting back and being passive, nor are you automatically blaming other people or expecting other people to do what you could be doing for yourself. You’re taking action.
You have this sense of initiative in many areas – from your relationship to your career, your education, or your business.
Whatever the case may be, you are front and center, and you can see that when you pump, something happens. Just as you make a decision, there is a reaction from the universe.
This is how you edit your life. This is how you direct the outcome of your external world in line with what’s going on inside your mind.
What does it mean to taste sour breast milk in a dream?
This image is full of contrast because, normally, you would expect breast milk to be fresh. But when you suck on breasts in your dream, and the milk is sour, this can be interpreted as a sign from your subconscious that what you think was a smooth ride in terms of opportunities is actually more complicated than you think.
This shouldn’t be a cause of feelings of anxiety. If anything, you should be more than familiar with this kind of twist.
When you get into any kind of opportunity or situation, things are not always what they seem at first. Don’t expect a smooth ride. Don’t think that if you swing that bat, you will get a home run. It doesn’t work that way.
So, when things sour or has an off-taste when you try them out, it just tells you that you need to either try harder and change things up or change your expectations.
You are where you are for a reason. Don’t automatically believe that things have soured to the point that you just have to give up and move on to something else.
There can be a time for that, but it’s usually not now.
Dream Example #1
I was sound asleep and, my mom woke me up earlier than usual. She asked me to help her clean the house and get dressed.
We were going to visit the hospital to see my eldest sister, who had given birth to a daughter.
I got very excited, did a little cleaning in the house. I was in a hurry but, everything looked dirtier than usual. It took more time than expected to clean the house.
After getting done with the chores, I got dressed up in my favorite outfit. After all, I had become an aunt! I daydreamed of holding her in my hand, kissing her small cheeks, caressing those tiny hands, to the hospital.
I was overjoyed and couldn’t wait to take her in my arms. Before reaching the hospital, I went to a shop to buy her a gift.
The shop carried children’s stuff only. It had beautiful yet tiny dresses of every kind. I saw adorable jeans, shirts, frocks, jumpsuits, and tuxedos, etc., anything we see a grown person wearing except in a tiny size.
I wanted to buy the whole shop for her. My mom told me she had bought many dresses for her already. I should select something other than dresses.
I decided to buy a white-colored teddy bear with a red heart attached to its chest. A note of the “World’s best niece” was written over the heart. I adored the stuffed toy and bought it for her.
When we reached the hospital, I saw my sister and her tiny baby in the father’s hands.
I asked him to let me hold the baby and to caress her small cheeks and hands. After playing with her for a while, the baby started crying. She was hungry, my mom told me, and that my sister should feed her. We called the nurse, and she taught my sister how to breastfeed a child.
As my sister began breastfeeding her, the nurse started snatching the child away from her. She resisted and shouted. I was standing idle as if consumed by something; I couldn’t stop her or even move from my place.
The nurse grabbed the child and took her somewhere outside. After she left, I started moving and followed her.
As I entered the hall, it had several nurses carrying other people’s children. I could hear the screams of sobbing mothers from the rooms in the hallway.
Suddenly, I saw all the nurses placing the babies to their chests and breastfeeding them.
They were all looking straight at me.
They all formed a queue and started taking my niece and all the other children to another hallway. There are small children’s cots in the room.
They place each baby in a separate cot. All of a sudden, all the nurses vanished. I alone was left with so many babies to take care of. The moment I realized it, all the babies started crying at once.
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Dream interpretation and symbology have fascinated me ever since I read Freud’s classic, “The Interpretation of Dreams.” Ever since, I have explored Christian, Jewish, Hindu, and Buddhist as well as Jungian psychological ideas about the meaning of dreams. Thanks for joining me in my exploration of the amazing intersection between our conscious waking world and the rich expanse of our subconscious-the home of our intuition, instincts, and hidden potential.